Last but not least...lesson number 5 to reaching your dreams: Do NOT believe the only things that matter are the dreams themselves. "Life is never about the goals themselves, life is about the journey" - Bel Pesce
Every step of your journey should be looked at as something to celebrate, learn from or better yet, BOTH!
When we trip up or stumble we must take time to reflect on what we learned from the fall. Instead of sulking, saying we can't or feeling down about ourselves, we need to instead celebrate the fact that we realize this isn't working. Acknowledge the ah-ha moment as something to be grateful for. Dissect it. Dust yourself off and try again!